Grandma,

This morning Mom called to tell me you passed away. I am so deeply saddened. You were an amazing Grandma and I will never, ever forget you. Thank you for being a firecracker! For standing up for yourself and your family. I didn't always agree with what you said, but you were genuine and unapologetic and you didn't care about pleasing everyone. There is real value in that, Grandma, so thank you.

And, oh could you make us laugh! A few weeks ago, Jeremy, Jenny and I were together and we started talking about some of the funny things you would say.

And let's not forget about your love. I think the best testament to your loving spirit is how much Mom and your other children cared for you. I don't think you remembered how wonderful they were near the end, but Grandma, I learned so much about love from watching them care for you. And they cared for you because there was a mutual love. You loved them unconditionally, so they did the same.

You also taught me a lot about the value of hard work. You were so frustrated about not being able to clean more. And I loved hearing your stories, many of which were able working hard.

But work wasn't all you were about ... you played, too! I still try to remember your principle about eating whatever you want as long as you eat the healthy stuff first! In fact, I just did that for lunch, in your honor.

I'm so glad I have so many great memories. Grandma, I'm glad you were able to meet Emma. She is the best thing I have ever done. Being able to share her with you was very special.

There is so much more on my mind, Grandma. But mostly, I just want to thank you for being a positive role model, and for loving me for me ... for all of me ... good, bad and ugly. I will strive to live my life like you lived yours ... without regrets!

Love,
Julie